If you lack the courage to speak in French, it’s not because your accent is wonky.
It’s not because your grammar is off.
It’s not because you’re short on vocabulary.
When you’re at home speaking in French to the cat, none of these things hold you back.
If you lack the courage to speak in French, it’s because you worry about how other people will react to your French.
You’re worrying about things you can’t control.
Worrying about things you can’t control is stupid.
This is where an “oh well, whatever” attitude helps.
He didn’t understand me.
Oh well, whatever.
She switched to English on me.
Oh well, whatever.
I forgot how to say it.
Oh well, whatever!
You can fix what needs fixing later.
The “oh well, whatever” attitude works after you speak. Before you speak, you need to silence the thoughts in your head.
Your thoughts are screaming: “Oh my God. My accent is so bad. I can’t speak. I just can’t do it.”
You can’t control other people’s behaviour, but you can control your own.
Now is not the time to be a sissy.
You need to take that inner voice and slap some sense into it.
“Hey there, Inner Voice. You’re right. My accent isn’t so hot. But someday it will be. Oh, and by the way bitch, fuck you.”
Now speak, dammit.
If you lack the courage to speak in French, your priority right now shouldn’t be to learn more French.
It can wait.
Close your books.
Stop studying.
I don’t mean that learning French isn’t important.
What I mean is that worrying about other people’s reactions to your French is the best way to prevent yourself from feeling at home in it.
Make adopting a new mindset your priority instead.
If what you really want is to make French yours, this can’t wait.
